Sexual Sobriety

To counter the destructive consequences of sex and love addiction, we draw on five major resources  Here is one: 

Sobriety. Our willingness to stop acting out in our own personal bottom-line addictive behavior on a daily basis. 

This doesn't mean we stop having sex.  It means that we identify and eliminate behavior that we have tried again and again and find destructive and disruptive.  This opens the way to what is genuine and pure in our lives.